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在一起六十年是一种什么体验

作者: 洪小漩 2022-09-10 00:51:11
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在一起六十年是一种什么体验

摄影:洪小漩

出镜:羽希的爷爷奶奶

“一定要找个时间,请你帮我爷爷奶奶拍一组照片。”这句话,羽希和我提了多次。“好。”我每次都回应得很爽快。

事实上,直到这次请年休假带女儿回浦江,我俩才总算将约定付诸行动。羽希说,今年,是她爷爷奶奶结婚60周年。

见面当日,爷爷穿了白衬衣,灰裤子,奶奶穿了蓝衬衣,黑裤子。另外,两位老人家脚上穿的都是解放鞋,轻便、跟脚。

我招呼菲比,叫阿太。慢热的菲比先是抱着我的腿默不作声,过了好一会儿,才和两位老人家熟络些。

爷爷挽着奶奶的手,笑着开口道:佩佩一定要让我们出来拍,那么大年纪,又不好看,有什么好拍的。

佩佩是羽希的曾用名,是爷爷奶奶自小唤到大的名字,也是区别亲疏的最佳方式。

羽希和我曾就读于同一所高中,却少有交集,我认识她时,她已经叫羽希了。直到大学毕业几年后,我们经共同好友牵线在杭州相遇,后来还成了室友兼闺蜜。

对于羽希而言,爷爷奶奶是一手将她拉扯大的长辈,也是她最感恩的亲人。

她说,爷爷是个教书先生,三尺讲台育桃李,一支粉笔写春秋。这辈子清贫度日,却教会了她许多道理。而奶奶是位普通的农妇,四季劳作,耕种出瓜果蔬菜的同时,更和爷爷共同哺育大了四个子女……

多年的相处,从她分享的那些关于爷爷奶奶的细节里,我其实早已白描出两位长辈的形象。直到见面这一天,想象和现实重叠,几乎没有太大出入。

当天拍摄,纵使长辈一直说,拍几张就够了,你辛苦了。我也丝毫没有放缓按快门的频率。我甚至想凑得再近一些,捕捉他们搀扶着的手臂所传递的温度,以及老人家脸上深浅不一的岁月年轮。

爷爷说,自己从教37年,是个地道的教书匠。听得出,他为自己的职业骄傲。

哪怕退休了,爷爷身为老师的威严却依然在。与之共存的还有他那近乎严苛的道德标准。这一点,我通过羽希顺手折了两支路边荷叶后被爷爷厉声斥责的插曲中,得到百分百的验证。

哪怕三十多岁了,羽希还能被爷爷叉着腰骂不懂事,真是她的福气。

羽希和我说,在一起六十年,听说这叫钻石婚。回家整理照片时,我问阿科,我们有可能在一起六十年么?阿科笑出声来,说,那我们要努力活到九十岁……

洪小漩
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